Question:

Dear CAKE,

I'm addicted to the feelings of love. I love everything about it and feel practically miserable without a girl in my life. I'd really appreciate any advice you could give me to take my mind off females, or at least like being single. I don't want my happiness to depend solely on companionship at my age. I'm 16... I'm too emotionally mature for my age because I've had to grow up quick. I've moved about 13 times. Born in New Jersey, moved all over here, then moved to Florida after 4th grade, then moved back to New Jersey after eight grade. I've been in about 7 or 8 different schools. So yeah, any advice you could offer would thrill me, and I'd definitely take it seriously coming from a source such as yourselves.

Thanks,

Aaron

Answer:

Dear Aaron,

Whatever you do, get out there and live your life. See and do things.... with friends, or with a girlfriend. Enjoy being in a relationship if it makes you happy, but be careful not to let it monopolize all your time and energy becoming reclusive when you've coupled up with someone.

Also, be honest in your relationships. Be openly realistic with your girlfriends.
You need to be a part of something greater than yourself. You can't fight an addiction to love, but you can keep moving and distract yourself with other productive pursuits.

Good Luck,

CAKE

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